Sam Berry

Relationship coach
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About

Sam Berry is a Relationship Coach who helps women in committed relationships who feel disconnected, unseen, and quietly suffocating behind the roles they’ve learned to perform. Women who swing between numbness and overwhelm, second-guess their truth, and long for deeper intimacy, freedom, and aliveness without blowing up their lives. My work supports them to reconnect with their authentic self, regulate their emotions, and express their needs and desires with clarity and confidence—so their relationship shifts from duty and surface-level connection into something playful, intimate, and deeply alive. This is about no longer shrinking to belong, but expanding into who they truly are and creating real connection from that place.

My Story

For years, I was the one who held it all together—the listener, the fixer, the “healer.” I found myself in relationships where I gave endlessly, often with women who were struggling or carrying deep pain, believing that love meant staying, sacrificing, and trying harder. Little by little, I learned how to shrink, to soften my truth, to be who I thought I needed to be to keep connection. And the longer I stayed, the further I drifted from myself.
The breaking point came when I realised I couldn’t be fully me anymore. I wasn’t unhappy because something was wrong with me—I was unhappy because I was abandoning myself. That moment cracked something open. I knew, deeply, that I wanted more. More truth. More freedom. More aliveness. And a relationship where all of me was welcome.Over the past six years, using Access Consciousness tools, I’ve supported over 300 clients through coaching, workshops, and festivals—but this work isn’t just something I teach. It’s something I’ve lived. Today, I’m in a thriving, expansive relationship where vulnerability isn’t something to fear—it’s the foundation. Where we grow together, tell the truth, and choose each other without losing ourselves. This is the space I now hold for others: a space where you don’t have to fix yourself to be loved, and where choosing you becomes the doorway to deeper intimacy, not the end of it.

Contact

For sessions, enquiries or questions please send me an email.Get in touch here

Melbourne, Victoria, Australia